Life's Little Reminders

1.  Be in the moment.  You know when people say, "You're here but you're not really here?" When your mind starts to stray, reel it in and pay attention because what matters is the experience that is taking place then and there.

2.  Who is that person staring back at you in the mirror?  You're only as good as your fears and insecurities so know thy vices well.  It will only build self esteem and attract the right kinds of friends and lovers.  Be the best YOU can be and not by other people's standards.  People who truly love and care about you will not only reflect on your strengths but will accept your flaws as well.  Never change yourself for another person so much so that you start to lose sight of who it is you really are.  

3.  Never let your ego grow bigger than your compassion.  Be humble, gracious and appreciative of everything in your life because you are not better than anyone else.  You would do better to remember that you can learn something from everyone, especially the ones you DON'T want to become.

4.  Pick and choose your battles wisely.  Sometimes, the little things are just not worth it to get into a big fuss about.  However, you can't solve anything by always running away from your problems.  Always remember that life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. Most bad decisions we make occur during moments of anger and impatience.  Take a deep breath and think before you act.

5.  Never stop learning to strive upwards.  This goes hand in hand with #3 because it's easy to lose sight of Clark Kent when you become Superman.  They say people are like rocks tumbling from a mountain.  We are full of rough edges when we are young but they are eventually smoothed out by life's experiences and what becomes of it is a round, polished stone.  Read more, travel often, develop better social skills.  The more you better yourself FOR you, the more confidence you will have.  Try and surround yourself with positive people who carry the morales, principles, and mentality you agree with and not with those who belittle them.

6.  Always try and do the right thing.  The easy choices are not necessarily the right ones. Sometimes what we want is not what's best.  Learn to separate your head from your heart and listen to both independently.

7.  Heed good advice.  There should be a few people in your life who you can count on to save your life, rescue your baby, wipe drool from your face and pick you up even if you are covered in a huge pile of shit.  The advice they give you in times of indecision are usually for your own good even if you can't see it at the moment.  Listen to them.

8.  People who take care of themselves usually take care of business.  Ever noticed the first thoughts that come into your head when you notice an attractive person who seems really put together?  It's always something like, "They look good, I wonder what they're like" and you're immediately curious about them.  Another old saying "Messy bed, messy head" also states that people who are unorganized and lack an interest in their appearance tends to lead very messy lives as well.  Taking time to give yourself some tender loving care both inside and out will carry over to your working habits and goals.

9.  Balance, balance, balance.  Happiness is fleeting.  Joy is fragile.  Keep yourself well-rounded at YOUR own pace and not by other's standards.  You can't build a beautiful soaring tower without a strong solid foundation.  Be patient with your growing pains.

10.  Nothing lasts forever.  All the heartaches, disappointments, anger, and tears will eventually be replaced by other happiness that comes your way.  We will all eventually die whether or not we like it so why not make your time here on earth that much more pleasurable?  Kick out the bad influences in your life and keep the door wide open for the good.  Remember, you always deserve better.